>>166Fixable easily if you have all the others tbh, go to any sort of hobby or social event or whatever and the only thing that can fail you is being too nervous.
>>167Try to take up some of that unspent energy with sport, put your testosterone into physicality instead of sex drive and porn. As your physical fitness increases, so will your self image, and as your self image increases so will your pride and you will begin to feel a need for achievement and resent doing unproductive things all day.